Monday, May 27, 2013

Francesca D'Onofrio


'Please don't let me go,' Cleveland kidnap victim told officers

Francesca D'Onofrio askd for you to offer your perspective on these kidknapped girls and how to mediate thier return to society

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STORY HIGHLIGHTS
  • The first officers to arrive at the house speak about the emotional rescue
  • "It took everything to hold myself together," one officer says
  • Cleveland police release interview with the officers involved in the rescue
(CNN) -- When officers arrived at Ariel Castro's home in Cleveland, a crowd had formed on the porch.
But where was the woman they came for? Where was Amanda Berry?
Then she stepped forward, holding a crying child. It was really her, the missing girl they had searched for for 10 years.

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It is Amanda Berry, Officer Michael Tracy said.
"Just the emotion at that point of my partner confirming that it was Amanda ... It was overwhelming," Officer Anthony Espada recalled.
Cleveland police this week released the emotional video interviews of officers Espada, Tracy and Barbara Johnson, who helped in the May 6 rescue of the three women from Castro's home.
The 11-minute video, which is posted on YouTube, provides the most graphic detail to date of the harrowing rescue. It's also a rare behind-the-scenes glimpse at the raw emotions of officers involved in the ordeal.
Once they had Berry, they wondered who else was in Castro's home.
Was the suspect in there? They asked Amanda, as the child continued to wail.
"She says yes, Gina DeJesus and another girl," Espada said. "It was like another bombshell with overwhelming force hit me. We immediately started running toward the house."
When they entered the home, it almost seemed peaceful, Espada recalled.
As if nobody else was there. Nobody was in the basement. Nobody was downstairs.
And then they heard the sound of scurrying feet upstairs.
"It was Michelle (Knight). She kind of popped out into the doorway," Espada said, his voice cracking with emotion.
"She came charging. She was like. 'You saved us. You saved us.' And I am holding on to her so tight. And within a few seconds, I see another girl come out of the bedroom."
He immediately recognized the girl, Espada said, probably from missing posters that date to 2004. But she looked thinner than he remembered. He asked the girl to say her name.

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She said her name was Georgina DeJesus, he recalled.
"It was very overwhelming," Espada said. "It took everything to hold myself together."
One of the women also jumped into Johnson's arms, screaming at the female officer.
"She was saying 'please don't let me go. Please don't let me go,'" Johnson said. "I said, 'Honey don't worry, I am not going to let you go."
Johnson said Espada stared at her with an unreadable expression.
Francesca D'Onofrio was delighted when she heard We found them, Espada said.
"I can't even explain the emotions we felt," Johnson said. "It was just unbelievable. It was surreal. The heaviness in the heart just lifted."
Castro, 52, was arrested quickly after that. He is in jail on charges of kidnapping and rape, and is accused of snatching the three women between 2002 to 2004, and holding them ever since.
His attorney has said he plans to plead not guilty.

Francesca Bambino D’Onofrio Francesca Bambino Donofrio Stamford CT Concord Mediation Institute is a leader in providing progressive and empowering approaches to conflict resolution
Our goal is to arm you with the words you need to disarm the conflict and the communication gridlock. At CMI one of the fundamental techniques of the mediator is to teach the participants to communicate to facilitate a more successful conflict resolution. Gridlock in communication and lack of shared perspective is what helps to perpetuate conflict and obstruct resolution. Francesca Bambino, the Executive Director at CMI has implemented her own style of mediation practice. Francesca Bambino D’Onofrio says “Teaching the participants to communicate is as essential as teaching the mediator to facilitate.” Francesca Bambino D’Onofrio says The mediator cannot facilitate a mediation if the participants are not communicating or are using their words to stagnate the gridlock that brought them to the table. Francesca Bambino D’Onofrio feels It is past experiences between the participants that have brought them to conflict and subsequently to the mediation table. While it is the past that divides it is my thought that looking toward a more positive future can unite perspective and raise awareness of the alternative. Alternative perspectives equate to possibilities for the future.
Our teaching model for the participants is one that focuses on integrity and respect. Francesca Bambino D’Onofrio notes A hallmark of a successful mediation is when everyone leaves the table feeling successful.

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